by New York, NY – A first date took a disappointing turn when a woman was told she was “bigger than what he usually prefers,” prompting her to walk out and later question if she had overreacted.
The uncomfortable evening involved multiple instances where the date’s comments left her feeling disrespected, culminating in her decision to end the date early.
The woman shared her experience on Reddit, sparking widespread support and debate about dating etiquette, respect, and boundaries.
From Awkward Remarks to Dismissed Ambitions
The date began on a rocky note when the man made a comment about her weight while waiting for their food. Despite an attempt to backtrack with a compliment, the damage to the mood was done. Continuing the conversation, the woman spoke passionately about her love for art, revealing ambitions to exhibit her work in prestigious galleries.
Instead of encouragement, she faced dismissal. The man questioned the practicality of her artistic career, saying,
“Don’t you think it’s wiser to focus on a more practical line of work? Most people in it don’t go far. At least not until after they die.”
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She responded, “society devaluing artists is why the world is quite literally losing color and everything is grey and beige.”
Clash Over Family Plans and Final Straw
When the conversation shifted to family, the woman expressed that while she wouldn’t mind marriage with the right person, she did not want children. This prompted another critical response from the date, who said,
“I think it’s a red flag when a woman doesn’t like kids.”
Feeling the incompatibility was clear, she directly told him, “we’re not compatible,” asked for the check, and left after paying for her meal.
Online Reaction and Reflection
Later, she received a text from the date apologizing for the weight comment and accusing her of being “too sensitive.” She blocked him but still wrestled with doubts about her reaction.
Reddit commenters rallied in support, emphasizing that her response was justified. One user wrote,
“NTA. Three strikes and now he’s out. The weight comment. Devaluing artists. Kid incompatibility. Bye Felicia!”
She clarified, “I love children and would never go out of my way to mistreat one. I just don’t want one because I know my limits.”
This story highlights common dating challenges regarding sensitivity, respect, and compatibility.
For more background on this story, see the original report at People.com.
What Can We Learn?
- Respectful communication matters deeply in establishing mutual comfort on dates.
- Personal preferences about bodies and family choices should be expressed considerately.
- Dismissive attitudes toward passions and ambitions can signal fundamental incompatibility.
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